Lilith's Lair - Femme Only Sensual Party, 26th September

Lilith's Lair is a sensual space for queer, bi/pan sexual and bi-curious women and femmes to explore each other away from the male gaze, run by the owner and hostess of Filth and New Love - alternative dating night. 

The relaxed and intimate party will be spread out across 4 floors, with 6 minimalist style bedrooms, with a guestlist of up to 50 carefully vetted party goers.

Come and explore public sensuality with other femmes in a safe environment. 

Date: Thursday 26th September 2024

Venue: Kemp Town top secret location, please don't pay attention to the postcode as Skiddle doesn't let you post an event without a location. Address will be sent out to all ticket holders the day before the event!

Time: 8pm-1pm

Please ensure you can arrive before 8.30pm so we can go ahead with the ice breakers, the ice breakers have very important information both about our venue and our guidelines. If you think this might be a problem for you please message ahead of time. 

If you have attended our ice breakers twice then feel free to skip these, they are mandatory for new guests or guests who have not attended in a while. This is because we talk about important issues around consent as well as venue logistics and safety. 

For those who have attended a few times recently, we will have some activities going on to keep you busy until everyone is ready to join you.

Each of the 6 bedrooms will have sensual music, there will be no DJ - we want you to be able to express your needs and BE HEARD, a bed or beds and fairy lights for a magical and romantic feel.

There will be room for cuddling, exploring your kinks and for sensual play. We will have a few choice pieces of fet1sh furniture and a selection of toys for impact play in our k1nk room. Please feel free to bring your own, with 50+ femmes we could always do with more things that vibrate ;)

The night will start with mingling, some sensual ice breakers and hand massage. Please come on time to make the most of these activities as well as to touch base around consent, logistics and Lair rules.

We will also be exploring sensual massage with a selection of oils before we explore the space fully.

There is no pressure to take part or perform, this is your chance to explore your sexuality, your way and that also goes for the way you choose to dress.

We are not setting a strict dress code for this one but we highly recommend dressing in sexy and sensual fabrics, lingerie or fetish wear to get you in the mood. If you feel sexier in jeans and a tank top or a suit then that’s ok too. Nudity is not only allowed but fully embraced! 

The location is in Kemp Town in Brighton and will be kept secret until the night before for all of our safety and security, there will be no tickets on the door.

Regretfully the venue is not accessible, we continue our 6 year long search for the unicorn that is an accessible and sex positive space! 

To get the password for the event guests must be vetted by me, you will need a fleshed out Fetlife profile or not mind me having a little look at your personal social media page, we may also ask you a few questions but please don't worry we are a friendly bunch and we just want to keep everyone safe.

Please email brightonkk@gmail.com to start the vetting process and get the password. 

We will also email you some more information, you can find out more on our linked social media account.

We can't wait to meet you.